Sometimes it is one of the hardest things for people to accomplish in their life to be solid parents that have kids who respect and like them at the same times. You want to help them make the decisions that are right for their life and helping support them to forge a bright future. You need to hammer the facts in that they need to stay dedicated to what they enjoy in life if they want to pursue that task. Sometimes tasks are hard for a reason because they are very rewarding. You should try to encourage your kids to challenge themselves when they can. Because doing things that are challenging can make you better at doing things in the long run.
You should always consider the consequences of not being strict with your kids. If you are too lenient your children may lose respect for you. You always want to try and be a friend with your kids but when possible you need to try to keep their respect, because you will need this if you ever need to help them make hard decisions. If your children do not respect you they will always think less of the decisions you want them to make. It is a tricky balance of maintaining their respect without making them angry. Because sometimes when you try to hard to gain your child’s respect you could end up being rude and making them angry.
It all comes down to the way you choose to communicate with your children when you want to communicate things to them. If you are very aggressive about how you communicate with them this may not be the best method available to you. You should practice your communication skills frequently if you want to be successful with talking to your children. Making use of chat rooms is a perfect way to polish your communication skills at any time of day. I use Bubble Camsand Hehe Chat frequently to just perfect my method of communicating to other individuals.
In the end you will be surprised at what you can achieve if you get good at communicating with other people and communicating with your children. The way you interact with others influences the outcome of almost every situation you can encounter in life so it is important to know how to handle yourself. Hopefully you put in the time to practice and you will become a very solid parent.